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…if these manners are not truly from their heart, it is considered insincere. There are proverbs The Warm Hearted Family 46 How to Manage Family Life The Warm Hearted Family 47 How to Manage Family Life

A person who has the Dhamma for Laypersons (Gharāvās-dhamma) must display four regular habits: 1. Habit of Responsibility - Whatever the task at hand, he must do it to the best of his ability, in term

…ind a suitable spouse with great virtue, one that family members will fully accept and respect. The Warm Hearted Family 48 How to Manage Family Life The Warm Hearted Family 49 How to Manage Family Life

that warn, "Sweet words are more devastating" or "Sweet beginning, bitter ending" or "Sweet mouth, sour bottom." 4th Level: Beauty of Mind - This is the beauty of the virtue within a person, which can

…ing, a higher level of endurance is required in order to withstand possible conflicts. In other The Warm Hearted Family 50 How to Manage Family Life The Warm Hearted Family 51 How to Manage Family Life

3) They must have a life teacher or a good counselor advising them on marriage and relationships. Otherwise, it is possible that they will not be able to maintain a long relationship. 4) They must be

…arned up to this point that our grandparents continued to discover how to develop endurance and The Warm Hearted Family 52 How to Manage Family Life The Warm Hearted Family 53 How to Manage Family Life

words, it is the ability to have endurance for others' weaknesses. Once the couple is married and begins living together, there will be many responsibilities one must undertake for one's spouse and on

…stronger the knots, the safer it will be to climb to reap the benefits of the sugar-palm trees. The Warm Hearted Family 54 How to Manage Family Life The Warm Hearted Family 55 How to Manage Family Life

gentleness in their minds. So they converted these virtues into metaphors for practical purposes, which included the following four magic forms of conduct: Magic Form of Conduct #1: Eyes like the knot

…ur ear like a wok handle. Then the problems of others will not get a chance to enter your mind. The Warm Hearted Family 56 How to Manage Family Life The Warm Hearted Family 57 How to Manage Family Life

Humans also have eyes. We must train our eyes to be like bamboo knots, because the most important aspect of eyesight is, "Don't look at things you aren't supposed to see. Don't look for trouble. Don't

… they taught their children about the virtues of being honest, and knowing they had always been The Warm Hearted Family 58 How to Manage Family Life The Warm Hearted Family 59 How to Manage Family Life

When some people learn they are being gossiped about, they become so furious that they could kill the person who started the rumor. But if we know how to turn our ears into a wok handles, those words

…ese situations. In other words, even if we might not be able to it, we must learn to endure it. The Warm Hearted Family 60 How to Manage Family Life The Warm Hearted Family 61 How to Manage Family Life

honest with every job they did throughout their lives, they could tell their stories proudly: "Ever since we were young, when we had to get a job, even if it was to empty or to clean the toilets, we w

…sts forever. Everything arises, exists, and deteriorates. No one can escape this truth of life. The Warm Hearted Family 62 How to Manage Family Life The Warm Hearted Family. 63 How to Manage Family Life

Base on this truth, whether we are content or not, as humans, we must learn to have calm and unwavering minds, not to be frightened of life's uncertainties, and know how to remain alert, like the eart

…e, loss of prestige, criticism, or difficulties, our minds will remain calm, alert, and strong. The Warm Hearted Family 64 How to Manage Family Life The Warm Hearted Family 65 How to Manage Family Life

Our grandparents advised that, for the mind to be as stable and solid as the earth, we must first realize that, in this world, we are subject to both gratification and disappointment; it is a matter o

…ly Conditions, we are all subject to these principles. The most important thing in life is that The Warm Hearted Family 66 How to Manage Family Life The Warm Hearted Family. 67 How to Manage Family Life

When we receive fortune, prestige, recognition or happiness, our minds will remain calm, not overwhelmed or attached. A person who is aware of suffering and happiness has trained the mind to be as sta

…y in every country can achieve this, it will greatly benefit the quality of the world's people. The Warm Hearted Family 68 How to Manage Family Life The Warm Hearted Family 69 How to Manage Family Life

we must train our minds to be calm and be ever ready for life's uncertainties. If we are well-prepared for the unexpected, we will be able to control our mind to remain alert and be able to live with

… other thoroughly; these responsibilities are based on the Four Universal Forms of Benevolence. The Warm Hearted Family 72 Keeping Love Alive (Cherishing Love) The Warm Hearted Family 73 Keeping Love Alive (Cheri…

The Buddha answered this question in one word: benevolence. That is to say mutual benevolence, the practice the Four Universal Forms of Benevolence (Sangahavatthu), promote happiness in living togethe

…volence. The presence of Dhamma will be like two loops keeping the couple together until death. The Warm Hearted Family 74 Keeping Love Alive (Cherishing Love) The Warm Hearted Family 75 Keeping Love Alive (Cheri…

1. Five Responsibilities of a Husband to His Wife 1.1 Appreciation. The husband should openly respect her as his lawful wedded wife, not furtively keeping her like a mistress. If his wife does somethi

…a for each person in the family is appropriate. Be prepared to rise before anyone in the family The Warm Hearted Family 80 The Mother of Great Kindness within the House The Warm Hearted Family 81 The Mother of Gr…

When they reached Magadha, which was 112 kilometers from the capital of Kosol, Tanachai asked King Pasantikosol, "The city is small and I have a large number of retinue with me. It will be inconvenien

…er's womb while others survive to see the world? Why are some born strong while others are born The Warm Hearted Family 82 The Mother of Great Kindness within the House The Warm Hearted Family 83 The Birth of a M…

with them. In that situation, angry words will only make the situation worse. It is better to wait when they are no longer angry before gently explaining the situation. 10. Pay homage to the angels. W

… The mother will await her unborn child eagerly. She will make offerings and wish for a blessed The Warm Hearted Family 86 The Birth of a Meritorious Person The Warm Hearted Family 87 The Birth of a Meritorious P…

A senior monk once discussed kamma: "The word kamma is a neutral word that does not imply good or bad since kamma means action. An action always carries a consequence. Why do we feel full? It is becau

…rove that the consequences from kamma are real. This is why we must focus on doing good deeds." The Warm Hearted Family 88 The Birth of a Meritorious Person The Warm Hearted Family 89 The Birth of a Meritorious P…

child to be born to her. When someone from a fortunate realm is ready to be reborn, he will choose the best and most generous mother. Once he enters the womb, he brings good fortune to his mother and

…r to the baby according to Buddhist teachings should be performed even before the baby is born. The Warm Hearted Family 90 The Birth of a Meritorious Person The Warm Hearted Family 91 Teaching your Unborn Child

the mind) you will go to Nibbana. As we continue in the cycle of birth and rebirth, we must concentrate on eliminating bad deeds and only on accumulating good deeds. Purify your minds as much and as c

…nd. Regardless of the work you do, you shall never abandon someone. When you begin to help, you The Warm Hearted Family 94 Teaching your Unborn Child The Warm Hearted Family 95 Teaching your Unborn Child

Chinese people understood this well. They even have a fable called "Teaching your Unborn Child" that has been retold continually since ancient times. During the Cheng Meng Season (a Chinese tradition